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Jump to 'I became addicted to internet chatrooms' Seeking solace as her marriage became strained, Lucy Dent initially found relief in chatrooms. She reflects on what became a hugely damaging addiction. It took many hours of counselling, cyberssx to mention thousands of pounds, to understand the ificance of this, but it cost nighta so much more than money. I was a latecomer to counselling, having ly considered therapy a largely American pursuit. I was British, and therefore buttoned up. I had learned to muddle by.

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He was young and beautiful and I couldn't believe that he wanted me. And they have a vhat of choices. Although this questionnaire may be an important anr step to getting your cybersex behavior under control, it is not an absolute accurate measure of a cybersexual problem. That initial separation, I later learned, all but ensured I would never be able to successfully bond with her. I didn't want an affair, nothing grubby, nothing seedy. We would meet in hotels, have sex — mindblowing sex - and then the realisation that what I was doing was irrevocably wrong would set in.

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During the day, at work, he would search for sites he liked. They may also be afraid that their friends will reject or ridicule them. There are step programs available for sex addiction.

Boulware is a psychotherapist in practice in Santa Monica and Redondo Beach. I had learned to muddle by.

'i became addicted to internet chatrooms'

There were redundancy problems at work; my marriage was showing strains; and there was something large and unnameable missing from my life. Driving home after work, stressed, or sometimes bored, from his day, he looked forward to the pleasure and relaxation of his cybersex that evening.

My father leaving didn't help, and for the first six months of my life I was placed with a notional "auntie", a family friend who became my surrogate sloatsburg granny chat throughout my childhood. When she confronted him, it created a crisis in their relationship. Amazingly, recent studies have shown that more than half of all Internet visits are involved, in one way or another, with sex.

Then, his Internet time increased to 30 and 40 minutes, and more. I quit decisively at first, then slipped up, then quit again, craving some kind of patch.

Call or visit Telegraph Books. We had agreed, early on in our relationship, that we wouldn't have children.

Do you frequently erase your computer files to conceal your cybersex activity? He discovered messages on my phone and so I sat him down and poured the whole sorry tale out to him, feeling I was stamping on his anc with every word.

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For some people, any addictive behavior can be a symptom of an emotional or psychological problem. I was convinced I wouldn't make a very good mother and didn't want my son or daughter, in 40 years time, to dread calling me, fearful I'd berate them for some emotional crime or other. Carol Boulware, Ph. I began chatting to men online in private chat forums, concealing any obvious indentifiers of who I was but talking about my life, problems and thoughts.

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Does it seem to you that your sex chat room friends are more ificant to you than your regular friends or family? One day, she sat down at their computer to do something, and happened to notice the Browser history -- full of porn sites!

And, just as with any other substance abuse or addiction, it is wreaking havoc in their lives -- jeopardizing their jobs and imperiling their existing relationships. It felt like stopping smoking. Since he had a private office, he was able to get away with it for a while.

I spent a lonely Christmas at my mother's house with nothing to do but wonder how I had got myself into this situation. So powerful, in fact, that it has become a serious problem. My husband and I became strangers, our lives by now distinct entities.

By the time he fell into bed at night, his energy was thoroughly spent. Have you tried to cut down on the time you spend at sex-related sites?

Does the time your spend on-line for sex, sometimes interfere with, or distract you from, your real life activities or responsibilities? His partner, finding out about the deceit, gave him an ultimatum to go into therapy, or end their relationship.

Have you been successful at cutting down the hours you spend on the Internet for sex? But we can't blame our parents forever.

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And it was harmless, until I fell in too deep and wanted more than his messages. After a couple of months I had to end it — and it was after I had made this decision that my husband found out.

And then it was finished: our nest, our empty nest. And so our long-nurtured virtual affair became real.

In the meantime, I had nothing to lose.